Relationship Therapy in Houston, online across texas and relationship coaching worldwide.

BUILD YOUR WAY FORWARD—TOGETHER OR APART.

The love is there — but so is the pain. You’re here because you’re tired of:

  • Frequent, intense conflict with no resolution

  • Broken trust after small or significant betrayals

  • Lingering trauma responses after an affair

  • A lack of warmth or affection — living like roommates, slowly drifting apart

  • Hopeless gridlock in an anxious/avoidant attachment strategies

  • Shaky or ignored boundaries — with each other, kids, extended family, work, money, hobbies, etc.

  • Codependency and rigid roles: caretaker & cared-for, fixer & broken one, over-controller & under-controller, pleaser & avoider

  • Parenting conflict that never seems to resolve

  • A lack of purpose, direction, or shared vision for the relationship

  • Ambivalence about staying or leaving

  • Disorienting life transitions — losses, blending families, divorce, death, parenting changes, empty nesting, health struggles, retirement, immigration, career shifts — all taking a toll on your relationship

    If you're ready to work on your relational growth, my goal is to help you:

  • Heal past wounds and restore — and sustain — authentic connection

  • Mature your communication and learn to cherish each other again

  • Rekindle joy, spontaneity, admiration, and playfulness

  • Strengthen conflict resolution and problem-solving skills

  • Clarify and maintain healthy boundaries

  • Improve parenting and co-parenting collaboration

  • Navigate life transitions as a team, and with grace

  • Gain clarity about what needs to change

  • Heal self-esteem wounds and shift unhealthy power dynamics

  • Part ways with respect and kindness, if needed — and move toward healthy uncoupling

how i can help

Relational Life Therapy is about waking up and helping you be real with yourself and each other.

Some couples come in stuck in a 50/50 dynamic. Others are caught in something more uneven—70/30 or beyond. Sometimes one of you carries deeper childhood wounds, and they’re getting in the way of connection.

My role is to hold up the mirror with compassion and clarity—so you can see how you relate to yourself and your partner. We’ll explore blind spots not as flaws, but as trailheads for healing.

I don’t sugarcoat, and I don’t pathologize. We’ll go straight to the heart of what’s not working—and I’ll guide you in building the tools to change it.

Most of us didn’t grow up learning how to do relationships well. So we repeat dysfunctional familiar and/or cultural patterns that helped us early but no longer serve us. I’ll help you recognize those patterns, take ownership without shame, and grow into what Terry Real calls full-respect living.

You and your partner might coming with different agenda. You might be torn about whether to stay or go. Together, we’ll get honest about what’s underneath and explore what healing, clarity, or change could look like.

This work is about moving beyond wounds, protection, and role fatigue—into something deeper:

  • Boundaries without guilt

  • Repair without shame

  • Connection without losing yourself

  • Express your truth with love, accountability, and respect

  • Think and behave relationally

  • Shift from blame to relational empowerment

  • Practice empathy while holding your boundaries

  • Move from automatic reactions to authentic responses

  • Shift from dominating or appeasing to true relating

imagine if you could: